Is Halloween Too Scary For Your Kids?
Right now Halloween is everywhere you look, but are the scary decorations, costumes and even spooky Halloween traditions may be scaring your children more than you as their parent realize.
Every year Halloween gets scarier as technology allows the holiday to seem more and more realistic. Fears around Halloween are development-appropriate because nearly every kid has something they are afraid of that is associated with Halloween. Just take a drive to a local store and go down the Halloween isle and see if even as an adult you don’t find something that scares you little or at the very least grosses you out.
It’s for this reason I caution parents to not allow children under the age of 12 to go to a haunted house. Now you might be thinking my kid watches scary movies on TV so even though they are under 12 they can handle a haunted house. If you believe that you’re probably wrong because after many years of watching TV your child should already know that nothing is going to jump out of the TV and grab them the same cannot be said about the dark corners of a haunted house.
I’m not saying not to let your child experience fear because the only way they will ever conquer fear is to confront whatever it is they are afraid of. What I suggest is you allow that younger child to experience the fear but from a safe distance where you as a parent are able to remove the child at a moments notice if the fear becomes too intense.
Halloween is a big holiday with holiday related sales topping the $6 billion mark so it’s not going anywhere which means your child and you can experience all things spooky when your child is ready. There’s no point in rushing it and possibly scarring your child with an irrational phobia for life. Till next time keep the spooky but not to spooky for the under 12 crowd –The GhostMap team



